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I have a few game-time strategies to increase the comfort(s) in my life. My strategies revolve around a daily schedule that I have built up over the course of this past year. My daily schedule is not rigid, however, I am quite firm on staying as close to it as possible. It also depends on how my little one is behaving on any given day.Mine & Jian‘s best friends have a set schedule with time frames written out clearly on a dry erase board they keep in their living room. They are extremely diligent on staying true to their strict schedule, except on weekends.

When I am taking care of my little one by myself (without the extra help from my mom & Jian), I try to stick to my daily routine as much as possible. I don’t give myself strict time frames, but I at least have a general timeline of when to accomplish target tasks.

First thing early in the morning, I head to the kitchen to grab my kid a cup of milk. I pour myself a cup of leftover coffee (lately I have been really into drinking iced coffee). My little one & I will lounge about in bed for a little bit. She will play toddler games on my iPad while I watch the morning news on TV. She drinks her morning milk, & I drink my coffee. This is one part of our daily routine that is definitely a luxury. It starts our day on a happy, positive note.

After breakfast, I clean up the kitchen. This is when I will play some music on Spotify or play a movie to run in the background while I am washing dishes & such. I will also take some time to top up my coffee cup, check my Instagram feed, or watch a few YouTube shorts. This is my equivalent of a 15-minute smoke break in a corporate office. However, at least one to two times per week, I will use this in-between breakfast & lunch time to wash my hair. I cannot wash it at night when I shower because it takes too long.

During my little one’s nap time, which I call “quiet time”, is where the fun starts for me because it is now my do-whatever-I-want time, or more accurately, the do-the-things-she-won’t-let-me-do-while-she’s-awake time. I will use this time to grab my 2nd full cup of coffee for the day. Also, right now, I am currently in the process of building 4 toy brick sets from CaDA Bricks. I use my little one’s nap time to work on my brick sets. If she were awake, she would want to grab all of the pieces & scatter them all over the house. Just a few minutes before the little one wakes up from her nap, I will carefully put away my bricks.

Carving out this 2-hour window each day to work on my brick sets or read up on trashy celebrity gossip is one of my day’s comforts. It allows me some real time to relax & not have to think about chores or daily work. This time when my little one is extremely precious to me & I make sure I set aside an allotted amount of time each day to do something I enjoy, like writing this blog. That pretty much sums it all up. There’s not much strategy other than setting aside some uninterrupted time to do things I need to or want to do. That’s all. Until the next one, cheers!