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What brings you peace?
Lots of things bring peace into my life, big things, small things, random & silly things. I do not meditate, or bullet journal, or do specific arts & crafts like knitting or chrocheting. I guess those types of things provide more of a calmness than peace, but I also suppose those two things can go hand-in-hand most of the time.
Here is a list of things that bring me peace:
- Not having any major physical illness or impediments
- Making lasting memories with my child
- Having easily accessible child support within my family
- Having the best partner to raise a child with
- Having a much less strained relationship with my older sister
- Building even deeper relationships with my older brothers & core friend group
- Still having members of the older generations in my family (Most, if not all of the elders in my family: grandparents, parents, aunts & uncles are all gone.)
- Being in a comfortable financial status (*knocking on wood* đ€đ» đȘ” đȘ)
- Having the means & ability to travel at least once a year
- Eating my favorite ice cream flavor
- Having one more cup of coffee
These are the core things that bring me peace. Everything else just seems like boasting. I will leave it at that. Cheers all.
Whatâs your go-to comfort food?
My absolute comfort food is kind of boring, but actually isnât. Itâs a sandwich; just a sandwich. Itâs not my family staples of Chinese or Japanese food. Itâs just a good old fashioned sandwich.
I wonât get into all the details of which sandwiches are my favorite, or which condiments I like to put in those sandwiches. That topic would take way too long for me to explain. Also, I wonât get into the whole debate on whether or not a hot dog is considered a sandwich, which by association, that should mean that a hamburger is also a sandwich. Lots of American eateries even use sandwich bread to make their own hamburger recipes.
I have been eating sandwiches ever since I started going to school, even in pre-school & summer school where we were asked to bring our own brown bag lunches. My mom would make me a ham & cheese sandwich with mayonnaise on white bread (until I found out I was supposed to be allergic to white bread). That was my earliest memory of eating sandwiches. Ever since then, I have grown very fond of eating sandwiches.
Sandwiches are easy to throw together when you canât think of anything to actually cook. They are versatile; I mean, you can put just about anything you want in a sandwich, savory or sweet, & you can use any kind of bread you want. Sandwiches are also very portable & easy to eat when youâre on the go rushing out the door, or having a leisurely picnic.
I just very much enjoy eating sandwiches. Thatâs why I would say a sandwich is my go-to comfort food. Itâs something I have always eaten since childhood, & besides, who would actually say that duck a lâorange or coq a vin served with a side of haricots vert is their comfort food? Thatâs ridiculous. I want to eat something quick, easy, & delicious. Sandwiches. Boo-ya! Cheers.
Today’s song of the day:
What strategies do you use to increase comfort in your daily life?
I have a few game-time strategies to increase the comfort(s) in my life. My strategies revolve around a daily schedule that I have built up over the course of this past year. My daily schedule is not rigid, however, I am quite firm on staying as close to it as possible. It also depends on how my little one is behaving on any given day.Mine & Jianâs best friends have a set schedule with time frames written out clearly on a dry erase board they keep in their living room. They are extremely diligent on staying true to their strict schedule, except on weekends.
When I am taking care of my little one by myself (without the extra help from my mom & Jian), I try to stick to my daily routine as much as possible. I donât give myself strict time frames, but I at least have a general timeline of when to accomplish target tasks.
First thing early in the morning, I head to the kitchen to grab my kid a cup of milk. I pour myself a cup of leftover coffee (lately I have been really into drinking iced coffee). My little one & I will lounge about in bed for a little bit. She will play toddler games on my iPad while I watch the morning news on TV. She drinks her morning milk, & I drink my coffee. This is one part of our daily routine that is definitely a luxury. It starts our day on a happy, positive note.
After breakfast, I clean up the kitchen. This is when I will play some music on Spotify or play a movie to run in the background while I am washing dishes & such. I will also take some time to top up my coffee cup, check my Instagram feed, or watch a few YouTube shorts. This is my equivalent of a 15-minute smoke break in a corporate office. However, at least one to two times per week, I will use this in-between breakfast & lunch time to wash my hair. I cannot wash it at night when I shower because it takes too long.
During my little oneâs nap time, which I call âquiet timeâ, is where the fun starts for me because it is now my do-whatever-I-want time, or more accurately, the do-the-things-she-wonât-let-me-do-while-sheâs-awake time. I will use this time to grab my 2nd full cup of coffee for the day. Also, right now, I am currently in the process of building 4 toy brick sets from CaDA Bricks. I use my little oneâs nap time to work on my brick sets. If she were awake, she would want to grab all of the pieces & scatter them all over the house. Just a few minutes before the little one wakes up from her nap, I will carefully put away my bricks.
Carving out this 2-hour window each day to work on my brick sets or read up on trashy celebrity gossip is one of my dayâs comforts. It allows me some real time to relax & not have to think about chores or daily work. This time when my little one is extremely precious to me & I make sure I set aside an allotted amount of time each day to do something I enjoy, like writing this blog. That pretty much sums it all up. Thereâs not much strategy other than setting aside some uninterrupted time to do things I need to or want to do. Thatâs all. Until the next one, cheers!
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